Okay folks, I need your help. I moved into a new neighborhood about 6 months ago. I have been good friends with my neighbor, going shopping, over to each others house for dinner, watching each others kids, etc...
Well, come to find out, as my husbands and I are planting shrubs on Sunday, her daughter is having a birthday party and we get to watch the other kids arrive. My neighbor had mentioned the week before, when we were at her house for dinner, specifically that her daughter would not be having a party b/c they would be going away for Easter and they didn't want the hassle.
My daughter, meanwhile figures things out and starts to cry. We comforted her and just explained that sometimes these things happen and that we felt bad too. Now there was no fight between the girls that I know of---good grief they are only 5 (soon to be 6) and now 7.
I just can't believe that this happened. If she wasn't going to be invited, then the least they could have done is give us a heads up and we could have kept our daughter from seeing this happen. To be honest, I feel betrayed as well. I mean we even ran into her husband and daughter that day at Lowes while buying the plants and they came up to us!
She has not called me and I have given the obvious cold shoulder when I have seen her at the bus stop. I think its up to her to talk to me and at least explain.
So I need feedback.
Well, come to find out, as my husbands and I are planting shrubs on Sunday, her daughter is having a birthday party and we get to watch the other kids arrive. My neighbor had mentioned the week before, when we were at her house for dinner, specifically that her daughter would not be having a party b/c they would be going away for Easter and they didn't want the hassle.
My daughter, meanwhile figures things out and starts to cry. We comforted her and just explained that sometimes these things happen and that we felt bad too. Now there was no fight between the girls that I know of---good grief they are only 5 (soon to be 6) and now 7.
I just can't believe that this happened. If she wasn't going to be invited, then the least they could have done is give us a heads up and we could have kept our daughter from seeing this happen. To be honest, I feel betrayed as well. I mean we even ran into her husband and daughter that day at Lowes while buying the plants and they came up to us!
She has not called me and I have given the obvious cold shoulder when I have seen her at the bus stop. I think its up to her to talk to me and at least explain.
So I need feedback.
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