The decision has been made

[mylady]

We are letting Tawney go. I can't believe how gut wrenching it feels knowing that we have to say good bye soon. This dog has never even really liked me all that much. She is my husbands cocker and he had her when we met. She saw me as an intruder into their life and I swear spent a good 5 years plotting to get rid of me. As much of a pain in the behind she has been at times I still love her. She and my husband came together, they were a set I joined and it just seems unnatural that she will not be around much longer. When I emailed my husband today I told her she wasn't doing well, just doesn't seem happy. He emailed back that he too thought it was time and to set an appointment. I was surprised at myself at how I just dissolved into tears. Somehow this dog who seemed to hate me for so very long has still wormed her way into my heart. She finally decided I was worth having around when I got pregnant and she was fiercely protective over our babies. For a dog who always detested children, I was amazed. I think we will have to do it on Saturday so someone can watch our kids and hubby and I can go together. I just can't imagine her not here, not having that fourth set of furry paws underfoot. To be honest, I don't think I am ready to handle another death right now. I've pushed this one off because I am still struggling with my mom's death, even 2 years later. I don't want to deal with any more grief. But I've been selfish and I can't do that anymore.

[PetPixie]

I'm sorry that you and your husband have had to make this tough decision. Sometimes the kindest thing to do for the ones we love is to let them know how much we love them and let them go so that there is no more suffering.

My prayers are with you & your family that you all may get through this and hold the good memories of Tawney in your heart.

Hugs.

Melissa

[Smart-n-Pretty]

(((MyLady))) The only thing constant is change. All dogs go to Heaven.

[dirty hairy]

I am so sorry. Be brave, my thoughts are with you.
<<<huggs>>>

[odette]

She has hada great life, and you are brave and caring to do this for her. <hugs>>

[Smart-n-Pretty]

Your loving support of him through this and your heart felt tears while she goes to Heaven will speak volumes to him.

[kated]

I'm so sorry for your loss

You will see her on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge.

[jackieo]

I am so so sorry.

[PuppyFluffer]

Im so sorry, Melissa. (((hugs)))

[tmenne]

Just breath and take one step at a time. You can get through this.

[winterroo]

Sorry you are going through this. I feel your pain .

[doggydivas]

I just found this thread...I am so sorry for your loss....(((hugs)))